
The Course
Hey there, lovely souls! Imagine navigating the complex world of dating with confidence, self-respect, and a barrel of laughs instead of a bundle of nerves. That's exactly what you'll learn to do in this interactive course designed specifically for teen girls like you. We're diving deep into the concept of "conscious dating," which means becoming fully aware of your values, boundaries, and the energy you bring to a relationship. Through a mix of group discussions, personal reflection, and role-playing scenarios, you'll discover the superpower of hitting pause before, during, and after romantic interactions to ensure your dating life is healthy, happy, and truly aligned with who you are.
Now let's talk applications: you're going to walk away with skills that stretch far beyond the dating scene. The art of pausing lets you create space for making better decisions in all areas of your life—think friend drama, school stress, or even that impulse buy tempting you at the mall. You'll craft your very own "Pause Playbook," filled with personal strategies for checking in with your heart and head. So whether it's deciding if you're ready for a relationship, how to communicate your feelings, or simply learning how to say no with grace and guts, this course is your secret weapon for standing strong in your truth and sprinkling a little more joy into your journey of self-discovery.
What you will learn
You know, when I first put this course together, I really zeroed in on what it's like to be standing right where you are—on the cusp of relationships and all the big, exciting, and sometimes confusing feelings that come with them. We've built something special here that's all about empowering you to take control of your dating life, to really get why taking a step back, pausing, and reflecting is so powerful. I've been intentional in how we navigate each topic, making sure the course is practical, super engaging, and, most importantly, speaks your language! By taking part, you'll gain not just insights and strategies for conscious dating, but you'll also develop a toolkit that will help you foster self-respect, recognize your worth, and make decisions that truly honor who you are and who you want to be. Plus, I've broken it down into bite-sized pieces so you can easily fit it into your busy life—it's designed to work with you, not add to that ever-growing pile of 'to-dos'. You're gonna love how it all comes together to help you forge stronger, healthier connections, starting with the one you have with yourself.
Curriculum
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Your instructor
I am Nomveliso Mbanga, the spirited founder of Mayine Development Institute (Pty) Ltd and the pioneering force behind Nomveliso Mbanga Teencoaching™, where our mission is to seamlessly blend formal education with the rich tapestry of Indigenous Knowledge Systems. With a deep-rooted commitment to family restoration, I harness over 30 years of experience in youth and community development to foster the emotional and mental wellbeing of teenagers in Southern Africa. My approach is deeply informed by my passion for nurturing family units, honoring the individuality of each member, and fostering connections that contribute to healthier, more conscious relationships.
At the heart of Nomveliso Mbanga Teencoaching™ – a concept that is now making a significant impact in the USA, Nigeria, and Kenya – is my dedication to creating a culturally resonant space for adolescents to grow and flourish. I am proud to have developed coaching programs approved by the International Coaching Federation (ICF) that reflect my vision: the Teencoaching Certification and the Indigenous Parenting Coaching Certification. These initiatives are more than educational platforms; they represent my life's work and dedication to guiding teen girls as they navigate the intricacies of conscious dating and personal development within a framework that celebrates their indigenous heritage and individuality.

Mindful
Cultivating Awareness and Intentionality in Teen Relationships

Empowered
Harnessing Self-worth and Decision-making in Teen Dating

Reflective
Building Deeper Connections through Thoughtful Engagement